So who is to be the next young lady to be a " mistress of spices "?  And how is it to be determined?
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The writing below, from the chapter on turmeric in the book " The Mistress of Spices " by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni,
is a narrative which might show something about this question.  There is a reference to the shore of the magic island
where the ancient India wisdom teaching is given over, ltittle by little, to the few selected beautiful young ladies .......
I think of the " old one " as Ruth, some years from now, long after I ama gone,
as she  is  the teacher of our young ladies here in the " Village of Wauwatosa ".
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                             " The dreams I do not remember, but the voice that woke me
                           from them I will never forget.  Cool and grainy with a hint of a
                           mocking laugh in it, yet deep, deep, a voice to plunge your heart
                            into.
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                            " What has the god of the sea belched up on our shore this
                               morning? "
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                               The Old One, surrounded by her novices, and the sun a
                            halo behind her head and shimmering many-colored imn her lashes.
                            So that I scrambling to my knees felt impelled to lower my own
                             sand-caked ones.
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                                It was then I saw that I was naked.  The sea had stipped me
                             of all, clothes and magic and for the moment arrogance even.  Had
                              thrown me at her feet bereft of all but this dark, ugly body.
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                                 In shame I pulled at my salt-stiff haair to cover me.  In shame
                               I crossed by arms over my chest and bent my head.
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                                  But already she was removing her shalw, placing it around
                               my shoulders.  Soft and gray as a dove's throat, and the spice-smell
                               rising from it like a mystery I longed to learn.  And her hands.
                               Ssoft, but with the skin burned pink-white and puckered to the
                                elbows as though she had plunged them into a long-ago blaze.
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                                " Who are you, child? "
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                                 Who was I?  I could not say.  Already my name had faded in
                                 the rising island sun, like a star from a night that has passed away.
                                 Only much later when she would teach us the herbs of memory
                                  would I recollect it --- and my past life --- again.
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                                 " What do yiou want of me? "
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                                   Dumly I sstared at her, she who seemed at once oldest and
                                 most beautiful of women with her silver wrinkles, though later I
                                 would see that she was not beautiful in the way men use the
                                   word.  Her voice, which I would later learn in all its tones --- anger
                                 and mockery and sadness --- was sweet as the wind in the cinna-
                                   mon trees behind her.  A yearning to belong to her buffeted me
                                    like the waves I had fought all night.
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                                      I think she read my heart, the Old One.  Or perhaps it was
                                     merely that all who came to her were drawn by the same desire.
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                                      She gave a small sigh.  The weight of adoration is hard to
                                    bear, I know that now.
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                                    " Let me see. " And she took my hands in hers that had
                                      passed through fire, who knows where.
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                                      Too light, too hot, too damp.  My hands freckled as the back
                                     of a golden plover,.  Palms where at midnight thorn-purple blood-
                                      wort would burst into bloom.
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                                        The Old One had taken a step back, letting go.
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                                       " No. "
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                                         Each year a thousand girls are sent back from the island
                                      because they do not have the right hands.  It does not count if
                                         they have the second sight, or if they can leave their bodies to
                                         travel the sky.  The Old One is adamant.
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                                         Each year a thousand girls whose hands have failed them
                                        throw themselves into the sea as they sail home.,  Because death is
                                         easier to bear than the ordinary life, cooking and washing clothes
                                        and bathng in the women's lake and bearing childdren who will
                                         one day leave you, and all the while remembering her, on whom
                                           you had set your heart.
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                                            They become water wraiths, spirits of mist and salt, crying
                                            in the voices of gulls.
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                                             I too would have been one of them, but for the bones.
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                                               They were why the Old One could not resist taking my
                                             hands in hers again.  Why she let me stay on the island though all
                                               wisdom must have shouted  no .
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                                                  Most important in a good hand are the bones.  They must be
                                              smooth as water-polished stone and pliant to the Old One's touch
                                                when she holds your palm between hers, when she places the
                                              spices in its center.  They must know to sing to the spices.
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                                                "  I should have made you go, " the Old One would tell me
                                               later, shaking her head ruefully.  " They were volcano hands, sim-
                                                mering with risk, waiting to explode.  But I couldn't. "
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                                                " Why not, First Mother? "
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                                                " You were the only one in whose hands the spices sang
                                                    back. "
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                 Picture below from the Milwaukee Journal of Ruth in her younger years working the spices with her hands.
                                             
                                                                            

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note:  make sure to have all twelve up to the house, or perhaps better yet, over to Billy's house,
to see the opening segment of " Meetings with Remarkable Men ", the video on TV.
The scene is a rough mountainous region of Afganistan where Gurdjief's Father says
"  Every twenty years we aschkoffs gather here on the mountain to test our art ".
The mountain is teeming with the peoples of the region as one by one the famous
musician s of the area " play their art ".  The winner is to be that one single musician
who makes the mountain sing back, as this was a famous,  said to be, magic, mountain.
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The second most asked question of Thomas Jefferson when he was our
ambassador to France in the 1780's ( after all those questions about his startling red pants )
was about the secret salt mountain in the Ozarks in America, from which a highly
regarded salt was taken used in the curing & seasoning of all sorts of preserved meats & game & birds.
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As per Jenni's suggestion, yes, post here the lovely few pages on " the hand in very young children "
from the classic small book on teaching the very young by the Italian physician  Dr. Maria Montessori.
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